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Redkeje pa se zgodi, da se drugemu zahvalimo za na\u010din, kako je ob nas, kako je z nami v polnosti delil skrbi ali se nam je kljub utrujenosti nasmehnil.<\/p>\n<p>Poskusimo za trenutek pomisliti, koliko majhnih dejanj, prejetih ali podarjenih, v dru\u017eini sprejemamo samoumevno in se jih sploh ne zavedamo. Vpeti v \u0161tevilne dejavnosti ali v re\u0161evanje te\u017eav se ne zavedamo, kako pomembni in \u201chranljivi\u201d so ti darovi. V nas ostane neizra\u017een ob\u010dutek hvale\u017enosti.<\/p>\n<p>Prav v dru\u017eini, kjer se zdi pomo\u010d samoumevna, se zgodi, da se ne zahvaljujemo drug drugemu. Te\u017eava pravzaprav ni toliko v tem, da bi nam bilo te\u017eko se zahvaliti, temve\u010d v tem, da v sebi ne razvijemo ob\u010dutka hvale\u017enosti, da bi se ta lahko \u201coglasil\u201d sredi \u0161tevilnih drugih glasov v nas.<\/p>\n<p>Hvale\u017enost je nenadomestljivo bogastvo ne le v dru\u017eini, temve\u010d tudi v celotni dru\u017ebi. 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