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\u00bbBlizu je Gospod tistim, ki so skru\u0161enega srca\u00ab <\/em>(Ps 34,19). Kako sta zakonca Pia in Renzo pre\u017eivela zadnja leta skupnega \u017eivljenja, preden se je Renzo zaradi neozdravljive bolezni poslovil.<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_team_member][et_pb_text _builder_version=”3.22.4″ text_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”text_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ text_text_shadow_vertical_length=”text_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ text_text_shadow_blur_strength=”text_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ link_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”link_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ link_text_shadow_vertical_length=”link_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ link_text_shadow_blur_strength=”link_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ ul_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”ul_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ ul_text_shadow_vertical_length=”ul_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ ul_text_shadow_blur_strength=”ul_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ ol_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”ol_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ 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aprilski reviji Novi svet.\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”3_4″][et_pb_text _builder_version=”3.22.4″ text_text_color=”rgba(0,0,0,0.91)” z_index_tablet=”500″ text_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”text_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ text_text_shadow_vertical_length=”text_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ text_text_shadow_blur_strength=”text_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ link_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”link_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ link_text_shadow_vertical_length=”link_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ link_text_shadow_blur_strength=”link_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ ul_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”ul_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ ul_text_shadow_vertical_length=”ul_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ ul_text_shadow_blur_strength=”ul_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ ol_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”ol_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ 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header_3_text_shadow_vertical_length=”header_3_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_3_text_shadow_blur_strength=”header_3_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_4_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”header_4_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_4_text_shadow_vertical_length=”header_4_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_4_text_shadow_blur_strength=”header_4_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_5_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”header_5_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_5_text_shadow_vertical_length=”header_5_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_5_text_shadow_blur_strength=”header_5_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_6_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”header_6_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_6_text_shadow_vertical_length=”header_6_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_6_text_shadow_blur_strength=”header_6_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″]<\/p>\n \u00bbZ Renzom sva se poro\u010dila zelo mlada, a v zavesti, da bo poroka spremenila in presegla najini \u017eivljenji. Vedno sva verjela v dru\u017eino, v vseh obdobjih, ki sva jih postopoma do\u017eivljala med veseljem in bole\u010dinami: trije otroci, ki jih je treba vzgajati, stalne selitve, ko sva nenehno za\u010denjala od za\u010detka. Kot vse dru\u017eine. Bolj ko je rasla najina zavzetost, da bi \u017eivela evangelij, bolj sta se krepila edinost in sozvo\u010dje med nama in z otroki. In \u010dutili smo, da bolj odpiramo srce za dru\u017eine okoli nas, skoraj kot bi imeli \u010disto svoj poklic, in sicer da smo \u201cdru\u017eina na razpolago\u201d. Prilo\u017enosti za razdajanje so se mno\u017eile in postajale so nekaj obi\u010dajnega.<\/p>\n Potem je nenadoma Renza pri samo 55 letih prizadela redka bolezen, ki ga je v osmih letih postopoma pripeljala v bolni\u0161nico in v smrt. To so bila te\u017eka in \u010disto posebna leta, v katerih se je ljubezen med nama pre\u010distila. Na eni strani bole\u010dina, molk, samota, uni\u010denje. Na drugi vedno ve\u010dja Bo\u017eja navzo\u010dnost, silno svetla lu\u010d. To sta bili dve plati iste medalje. Sku\u0161ala sva \u201costati v igri\u201d. Bolezen naju je naredila ob\u010dutljivej\u0161a za bole\u010dine drugih, usposobila naju je za globlje razumevanje. V tem \u010dasu sva spoznala nekaj lo\u010denih ljudi. Njihova bole\u010dina \u2013 pa tudi njihovo dostojanstvo \u2013 je razpr\u0161ila zadr\u017eanost, ki je nehote obstajala med \u201cnajinim\u201d in \u201cnjihovim\u201d svetom.<\/p>\n Leta 2006 sem sodelovala na sre\u010danju na evropski ravni za razporo\u010dene. Kmalu sva z Renzom \u2013 njegove \u0161ibke mo\u010di so pomno\u017eile moje \u2013 za\u010dela skupaj z drugimi pari sodelovati z razporo\u010denimi. Skupina si je poleg tega, da je okrepila juna\u0161ko zvestobo zakramentu, ki jo je imela za trajno, \u010deprav ljubezen ni bila ve\u010d vra\u010dana, postavila cilj, da se odpre tudi drugim lo\u010dencem, da bi jim ponudila oporo in prijateljstvo. \u010cutili so, da so razumljeni in ljubljeni, zlasti od Renza, ki je bil privezan na posteljo, njegova du\u0161a pa je segala v neskon\u010dno. Koliko pobud se je porodilo med eno in drugo hospitalizacijo!<\/p>\n Leta 2009 je pri\u0161el trenutek slovesa od Renza. Slovo je bilo \u010dlove\u0161ko gledano zelo te\u017eko, je pa najino zvezo spremenilo v most med nebesi in zemljo. Sre\u010devanje z razporo\u010denimi se je moralo nadaljevati kakor prej. Ker sem sedaj tudi jaz sama, mi morda uspe bolje razumeti samoto lo\u010denih, stisko, ker morajo vzgajati sami, ob\u010dutek, da se v socialnih odnosih po\u010dutijo neugodno. Nadaljevali so se na\u0161i vikendi za lo\u010dene v lepih, spro\u0161\u010dujo\u010dih krajih, s sprehodi in pikniki, z obhajanjem svete ma\u0161e in duhovno obnovo. Na ta sre\u010danja, za katera smo se dogovorili ustno, je prihajalo kakih sto razporo\u010denih.<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_testimonial _builder_version=”3.22.4″ author=”Sv. Janez Pavel II.: Apostolsko pismo o dru\u017eini Familiaris consortio” quote_icon_background_color=”#f5f5f5″ text_shadow_horizontal_length=”text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ text_shadow_vertical_length=”text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ text_shadow_blur_strength=”text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ z_index_tablet=”500″]<\/p>\n \u00bbCerkev […] ne more prepustiti samim sebi tistih, ki so sku\u0161ali skleniti novo zvezo, \u010deprav so \u017ee zvezani z zakramentalno zakonsko zvezo. Zato se bo neprestano trudila, da bi tudi takim ljudem dajala na voljo sredstva za zveli\u010danje\u00ab <\/strong><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_testimonial][et_pb_text _builder_version=”3.22.4″ text_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”text_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ text_text_shadow_vertical_length=”text_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ text_text_shadow_blur_strength=”text_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ link_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”link_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ link_text_shadow_vertical_length=”link_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ link_text_shadow_blur_strength=”link_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ ul_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”ul_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ ul_text_shadow_vertical_length=”ul_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ ul_text_shadow_blur_strength=”ul_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ ol_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”ol_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ ol_text_shadow_vertical_length=”ol_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ ol_text_shadow_blur_strength=”ol_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ quote_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”quote_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ quote_text_shadow_vertical_length=”quote_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ quote_text_shadow_blur_strength=”quote_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”header_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_text_shadow_vertical_length=”header_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”header_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_2_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”header_2_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_2_text_shadow_vertical_length=”header_2_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_2_text_shadow_blur_strength=”header_2_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_3_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”header_3_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_3_text_shadow_vertical_length=”header_3_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_3_text_shadow_blur_strength=”header_3_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_4_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”header_4_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_4_text_shadow_vertical_length=”header_4_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_4_text_shadow_blur_strength=”header_4_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_5_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”header_5_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_5_text_shadow_vertical_length=”header_5_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_5_text_shadow_blur_strength=”header_5_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_6_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”header_6_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_6_text_shadow_vertical_length=”header_6_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_6_text_shadow_blur_strength=”header_6_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ z_index_tablet=”500″]<\/p>\n Leta 2011 sem na povabilo \u0160kofijskega urada za dru\u017eino sodelovala na narodnem simpoziju \u201cLu\u010di upanja za ranjeno dru\u017eino.\u201d Na\u010din obravnavanja teme je bil velik korak naprej. Zaznala sem, da se v Bogu dru\u017einske \u201crane\u201d lahko spremenijo. Ko sem se vrnila domov, sem imela prilo\u017enost, da sem \u0161kofa seznanila s sklepi simpozija. Vidno je bil pretresen. Prosil me je, naj\u00a0za\u010dnem pot z lo\u010denimi\u00a0v \u0161kofiji. Skupaj z njimi smo odkrili, da se zakrament zakona nadaljuje tudi onkraj lo\u010ditve.\u00a0Ta resnica nagovarja tudi pare, ki so \u0161e vedno zdru\u017eeni, vendar se ne zavedajo vedno daru, ki ga imajo.\u00a0Ravno \u201czvesti\u201d lo\u010denci so nam govorili o stiski, v kateri se znajdejo ponovno poro\u010deni, in nas prosili, naj naredimo nekaj za pare v novi zvezi, ki so se odtrgali od Cerkve, ki pa bi \u017eeleli pomo\u010d pri rasti v veri in pri njihovi star\u0161evski nalogi. 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