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Kako negovati veder odnos do \u017eivljenja?<\/h4>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Lahko tvegate in gledate le tisto, kar je narobe (tudi zares), tako da zasen\u010dite vse ostalo, \u010drnogledost nas lahko prevzame in ustvarja \u201ckulturo\u201d negodovanja. Vse to gotovo vpliva na na\u0161e psihofizi\u010dno po\u010dutje in na zmo\u017enost, da smo protagonisti dru\u017ebene dejavnosti. Tema je zelo zapletena in tu ne bo prostora za raz\u010dlenjevanje. Z majhnimi navadami lahko negujemo zadovoljen odnos do \u017eivljenja.<\/p>\n<p>Raziskave na podro\u010dju pozitivne psihologije potrjujejo, da izvajanje vsakodnevnih vaj, kot vaja \u201ctrije blagoslovi\u201d, pospe\u0161uje dobro po\u010dutje. Vajo izvedemo tako, da vsak ve\u010der napi\u0161emo tri stvari, ki so nas osre\u010dile, natan\u010dno dolo\u010dimo, zakaj so dobre in kaj v nas vzbujajo. Lahko so tri preproste stvari: majhni uspehi, stvari, ki so \u0161le dobro, presene\u010denja, situacije, v katerih smo se po\u010dutili sposobne, uspe\u0161ne itd.<\/p>\n<p>Pomembno je dolo\u010diti, kak\u0161en osebni pomen ne\u010demu pripi\u0161emo. V\u010dasih smo nagnjeni k temu, da bi usmerili pozornost na to, kar nam gre narobe. Lahko je koristno analizirati negativne dogodke, da se iz tega kaj u\u010dimo, lahko pa tvegamo, da bomo porabili veliko \u010dasa in se osredoto\u010dili le na to, kar je narobe. Vaja \u201ctrije blagoslovi\u201d neguje pozitiven odnos do \u017eivljenja in ob\u010dutek hvale\u017enosti. Slednja je mo\u010d karakterja, ki ustvarja zadovoljstvo in pozitivna \u010dustva. Martin Seligman (o\u010de te usmeritve) in avtor te vaje, poudarja, da nas to, kar je negativno, nagiba k tesnobi in depresiji. Za izbolj\u0161anje zdravja je zelo koristno pove\u010dati sposobnost razmi\u0161ljanja in u\u017eivanja v tem, kar je \u0161lo dobro.<\/p>\n<p>Druga vaja, ki bi lahko bila koristna, je iskanje \u201codsekov-trenutkov\u201d \u010dasa, ko je mogo\u010de prisluhniti sebi, se ustaviti in se usmeriti na \u201cbiti\u201d in ne samo na \u201cdelati\u201d. Nau\u010diti se prisluhniti na\u0161im \u010dustvom, na\u0161im \u017eeljam in vrednotam. To lahko vzbudi novo ustvarjalno energijo, mo\u010d. To je mogo\u010de na razli\u010dne na\u010dine: duhovne izku\u0161nje, skupine za osebno rast, meditacija itd.<\/p>\n<p>Tretja vaja dobrega po\u010dutja je branje knjig za um: lahko uporabite \u0161iroko bibliografsko izbiro, \u010de sledite najrazli\u010dnej\u0161im temam osebne rasti in psihologije (Novi svet ponuja tudi vrsto besedil iz psihologije, iz katerih lahko \u010drpate). Branje spro\u0161\u010da in pove\u010duje zavedanje, poglabljanje tovrstnih tem spodbuja razmi\u0161ljanje in razumevanje notranjega sveta in dinamike odnosov. \u201cKnji\u017ena terapija\u201d se pogosto uporablja tudi znotraj evolucijskih ali psihoterapevtskih te\u010dajev.<\/p>\n<p>\u010cetrta vaja je lahko skrb za \u201cnotranjega otroka\u201d: izberite zabavno in prijetno aktivnost, ki spodbuja veselje in ustvarjalnost. Vzemite si \u010das, sami ali v dru\u017ebi, kjer boste izpolnili to \u017eeljo.<\/p>\n<p>Kot peta in zadnja vaja: vadite prijaznost! Naj ne bo \u201ciz mode\u201d! Vljudnost krepi odnose, vzbuja pripadnost skupnosti, ustvarja prijateljstvo in vse to pove\u010duje sre\u010do.<\/p>\n<p>Teh pet vaj, ki spodbujajo dobro po\u010dutje in optimizem, je lahko podlaga za nove projekte. 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